Let’s face it. Society hasn’t raised you to be a sexual ladies man who can sweep any woman off her feet and put James Bond to shame.
In fact, you’ve probably had plenty of opportunities to get sexual with a woman, but have given in to fear at the last moment. She walks away blaming herself and wondering what she did wrong, and you’re left with painful blue balls hoping next time will be different.
I feel your pain. I’ve been there. Back before I learned anything about seduction I had so many chances to make a move and never took action. Looking back now I cringe at how obvious it was that she wanted me to rock her world but never made a move.
It took hitting rock bottom to make me realize that this wasn’t something I was taught to do. Today’s education system filled me in on the fundamentals of getting a good career, being a good worker, and making it in the world. But when it came to being intimate with women, I was completely dumbfounded.
To make matters worse, I was constantly surrounded by messages from the world telling me that being sexual was bad. News reports headlining ‘sexual perverts’, overhearing girls talking about ‘creepy guys’, my parents awkwardly avoiding the topic hoping it will go away. These made me form all sorts of negative sexual beliefs that lead to a crippled dating life.